How To Relax Your Mind For Sleep – 6 Easy Techniques You Can Implement Now

How to relax your mind for sleep involves preparing yourself during the day.

As you most know daytime activities can follow us into sleep, be that they are good or bad.  

I remember when my mind was all over the place, but not where it needed, it created for many disturbing sleepless nights.

Heck, even the dreams were scary, all because my mind refused to relax. Most times this was due to some daytime activity which managed to creep itself deep down into the crevice of my mind.  

There are days where I feel like I should be doing one thing, but what do I do. I go out of my way to avoid doing that one thing to do everything else.

Later on in the day, I berate myself that I didn’t get done what I needed to get done.

Usually, this berating comes at night right smack at bedtime!

In today’s world, it’s even more challenging to have a relaxed mind, especially since everything is available at our fingertips. By this, I mean cell phones, computers, laptops, and tablets.

Research has shown that people who are focused on one task at a time are more successful as well as have a better-relaxed mind.

Bedtime should only be reserved for sleeping.

Juggling too many multiple tasks can definitely leave a person struggling to stay up with their daily to-do list. It can also lead to some unwanted anxiety at bedtime.

I know my daily to-do list suffers when I find myself getting overwhelmed with too many things to do.

Our mind is potent and is more than capable of processing loads of information. As well it controls our behaviors. Due to its excellent qualities, it can also be developed to create and strengthen new habits.

However, it has one fundamental vulnerability!

That being that it is susceptible to interferences or distractions, especially when trying to go to sleep.

Here are some useful techniques you can implement today on how to relax your mind for sleep.

1.   Develop Self- Control

Developing your self-control can lead to having control over all aspects of your life, including bedtime.

I don’t know if any of you can recall/know the 1960s marshmallow experiment. This was an experiment conducted on four-year-olds – they could either get one marshmallow now or wait and get two marshmallows later.

These children were followed into adulthood.

What psychologist Walter Mischel noticed was the children who had displayed self-control were more successful academically, had better sleeping habits/health as well as lower rates of marital separation and divorce.

There was another experiment conducted involving 1000 children who were tracked from birth to the age of 32.

In this study, researchers found that childhood self-control predicts how well the child would do as an adult.

How do they know this?

By tracking the children, they learned the ones with self-control were the ones who were more successful, which involved their health as well as wealth.

How can you develop self-control?

One of the best ways I found to develop self-control is to have a can-do attitude. This attitude can go a long way in helping you reach your goals. 

Always monitor yourself for progress. As you know, people who are trying to lose weight usually count their calories. Those who don’t count their calories typically end up not losing any weight.

You will always need to self motivate yourself, especially when it comes to developing self-control.

If you don’t have any motivation for what you’ll achieve, know self-control won’t turn itself on.

You need to flip the switch!

Learning to resist temptations requires willpower, which comes from self-control. The thought process is to do one thing and be good at. Then move on to the next one. 

This will help you relax your mind before bedtime because this is when you can learn to filter thoughts that don’t belong. You then gain self-control over your thoughts to have a successful rest at night.

2.   Practice Mindfulness

By practicing mindfulness, you are teaching your mind how to stay hyperaware yet be focused and relaxed. It’s aware of what’s going on; however, you are intentionally telling it to focus on one thing.

Being aware during mindfulness helps to prevent the anxiety of overthinking and rumination, which can lead to destructive thoughts.

You are also improving your memory as well as concentration and performance. During mindfulness, you are forced to pay attention to one thought.

Being relaxed and calm during mindfulness will also allow it to manifest itself in your daily life,  leading to a night of better sleep at night.

Another thing I learned is that b12 can also help you sleep by taking care of deficiencies which help to retain calmness in the mind by helping to draw out focus where it belongs.

3.   Exercise

Exercise is another way to learn to have a calm mind. How exercise induces calmness is that when you go to the gym, you work on one machine to develop the muscle for which the apparatus is made.

Most people who go to the gym would never randomly decide what to do when they get there.

They already have a plan laid out of what they need to do to get to their goal.

By following the plan that they’ve laid out at the gym, subconsciously their teaching themselves how to keep their mind relaxed at all times.

Remember to exercise during the daytime otherwise, it can lead to hot sleeping at night.

Now if you prefer working at night, then get some cooling bedsheets or blankets to make sure any sweat you have at night is drawn away from your body to keep you cool. 

4.   Avoid Distractions

Sometimes I wake up in the morning with 1001 things to do.

Obviously, I’m not going to get 1001 things done; maybe I’ll be able to do one of check of one of those things as being done.

Overloading myself right in the morning does not set me up for the rest of the day.

Distractions come in many forms such as phone calls, email and if you work at home, family members walking in.

There has to be a way for you to learn how to avoid distractions. It’s these very distractions that will lead you astray, believe me, once you’re distracted it becomes tough to return to what you are doing.

Have you ever watched a YouTube video? I’m pretty sure you have.

Have you ever noticed that YouTube videos unless you’re relaxed, are great attention hogs?

I definitely have!

 When I go to watch a YouTube video, I don’t just stop at one. In the right panel are a bunch of videos that YouTube throws at me thinking I’ll be interested in them too.

Well, guess what?

I am interested. There were nights where I used to waste hours upon hours watching YouTube videos.

Now I permit myself to watch a video or two, then allow my mind to achieve gentle relaxation, which helps to lead to a better quality of sleep.

5.   Learn Something New Every Day

Remember learning something new every day doesn’t have to be complicated. As a matter of fact, it can be pretty straightforward.

For instance, last night, I wanted to learn how to do Facebook ads. So off, I went to YouTube to look for how to create Facebook ads.

Before we go a little further let me tell you I did not allow the right panel to distract me!

Anyways back to my story about learning to do Facebook ads. It was something new to me; I knew I had to learn it, so I was very relaxed about doing what needed to be done.

What the past me would’ve done was watch a little bit of the training and then go off to watch something which held my interest.

But last night, I was thrilled with myself that I completed the whole video and set up a Facebook ad right away.

Which by the way is getting a lot of clicks, which means I am happy I learned something new.

6.   Let Go of Negative Thoughts

Negative thoughts are a hindrance as well they bring you out of relaxation fast. There isn’t a day that I don’t have the thought, “Why do I get so many bills!”

What do I do with that thought?

I let the thought play out because I know the thought needs to be heard. As soon as I’ve listened to a thought, it leaves my mind.

Every single thought we have has value, doesn’t matter if it’s negative or positive. The value is that it needs to be heard. Once it’s understood, it’s finished for the day.

Read my post on how to conquer your inner critical voice for sleep; it has few great techniques which may help you clear our mind.

In conclusion, how to relax your mind for sleep may involve doing some focused activities, but remember that this will lead to better sleep at night.

Having an excellent sleep leads to having a better day. Both day and night go hand in hand. One builds upon the other.

Share in comments below what you do during the daytime to prepare your mind for relaxation to sleep at night.  

18 thoughts on “How To Relax Your Mind For Sleep – 6 Easy Techniques You Can Implement Now”

  1. I had never heard that B12 could help with sleep and am now really excited to go and try it. Thank you for this invaluable tidbit in this article. I think another good tip is to avoid screens with blue light 2 hours before bed, I’m totally curious to try blue light blocking glasses. Have you tried them?

    • My husband uses blue light blocking glasses not only at night but in the daytime as well. He says they really help. B12 is amazing for many benefits. I highly recommend it.

  2. A very thorough and well written article detailing one of the major issues most of us are facing.
    Your helpful tips are definitely accurate for anyone looking to Relax their mind and achieve better sleep.

    Thank You !

    • Thank you for your comment. Here is to wishing many great sleeping nights.

  3. What a great post for working on how to get a good night’s sleep. It covers so much that I hadn’t thought of to help get a good night’s sleep. I can attest to the idea that exercise can help you sleep better for sure! I have trouble sleeping before a night shift sometimes, but I’ve found that if I do a taekwondo class, then come home and prepare myself for my nightshift, I can actually relax enough to have a solid sleep enough for me to relax and trust my alarm to wake me in time for my night shift. It’s not ideal, but when you do night shift, you do what you’ve got to do lol! I also practice mindfulness so when I’m struggling to get to sleep, by having had the practice of mindfulness as part of my daily routine, this helps me manage when those pesky thoughts pop in while I’m trying to go to sleep. I acknowledge the thought and not judge it, then allow it to pass. Thanks for creating a great list of how to get to relax to help get to sleep.

    • Sounds like you’ve already got some great techniques in place, thanks for sharing what works for you. Thanks for stopping by.

  4. I normally have a hard time falling asleep and this makes so much sense. I thought changing my pillow would work but that only worked for a little while. Thank you for addressing this I will keep it in mind when I find it hard to fall asleep because of the thoughts.

    • A great pillow does help, but if your thoughts are getting in the way then it would be a great idea to address those. Thanks for stopping by.

  5. WOW!!! excellent article on how to relax my mind, You have made my day with this write up because this have been affecting me before, when am thinking about something important sometimes, it will affect the night rest and hurt my next day productivity. Now with your method, the rest of mind can be attained, and I believe it will work. Thanks for sharing.

    • Glad to have made your day. Thanks for stopping by. 

  6. Good sleep can make us think straight and right. Sleep has a special way of reshapening our mind and brain for each day inorder to become productive. All of these guides ate very true. This Self control can be cheated sometimes when there is need to meet certain target nd have to get it done very soon. I have found myself in this situation before. If these guides can be practice and adopted, am very sure it will make sleep very easy for us.

    • You are so right sleep does reshape our mind, most of our healing takes place while we are sleeping. Wishing you great sleep ahead. 

  7. Hello Jagi, I must say that this article is very helpful and informative. I am glad I found it as I have a problem with sleeping as just as you said, there are 1001 things to do when I wake up and I  thinking of it throughout the day which leads to stress and anxiety. I will definitely work more on exercise as I see it affects greatly on the body when it comes to relaxing.

    • Those 1001 things pop up every day, it all matter of gaining a perspective to what you want to complete. 

  8. This is a really good post. I have had sleeping disorders and I’ve come to realise that it’s not a health issue but a mental issue. Sometimes, it’s the negative thought after a disastrous loss of funds that keeps replaying. I see things that I could have done better with the money and this bad thoughts keep coming. When I eventually fall asleep, I see about them and wake up and the whole process starts again. Not getting good sleep is a really painful situation and those who can easily fall asleep wouldn’t understand. I think you have put up very good tips and I was thinking nothing related to my problem until I got to the sixth way to relax the mind. 

    • That’s great that you found your glimpse of information. Thanks for stopping by. 

  9. I work  in a very stressful environment as a health professional, what I struggle the most is to disconnect from heartbreaking scenes of the day Sometimes even victory saving lives  

     After we have done a debriefing with the team when I get home I just failed to offload and dive to sleep as it is necessary for me to well-rested before I seize the next day 

    I have been hating myself for looking and asking for sleeping tablets from my GP

    Now I’m going to give exercise a chance to drive me to my sleep 

    You have helped me I will use these tips and get off sleeping tablets bad habit it’s not even good for my health in the long run 

    thanks for sharing

    • I commend for saving lives. The heartbreaking situation can definitely add anxiety to our day.  Hoping you great days of sleep ahead. 


Leave a Comment